The Art and Science behind
The Power of Love
A Novel, Scientific Theory and Mobile App for “developing more positive ‘inner’ relationships with Self and Others.”
Stefan is “The Father of Love” a quote by Ivel De Freitas, MD
Welcome to my website.
For the last 40 years I have been perfecting paradigm shifting theories of Human Development called
The Continuum Theory and of Love called Love Decoded.
My theoretical and clinical work, and my IRB approved clinical trial are about The Art and Science Behind The Power of Love – supported by many researchers – and it exposes the misunderstandings around what love is (not romance) as well as reveals what healthy self-love is (not self-indulgence). Unconditional Love is essential nourishment, necessary for all healthy relationships, and it must be applied to family, marriages, parenting, aging, as well as to one’s own mental, emotional, and physical health.
Stefan is very knowledgeable about love and relationships. Helps you learn how to communicate effectively with yourself and others.
I learned how I can change my behavior in a positive way. Change the little things I do to become a more loving person, more caring and especially a better wife.
I would recommend this course and App to couples or even single individuals because relationships are important and it is an important, useful theory and App.
Are you ready for learning how to love yourself and others unconditionally? Not everyone is…
You Are Born To Be Loved™
While one of the primary secrets to happiness is to know and then ask for what you want, and we all want and need unconditional love, the mystery is why people don’t ask for love. Especially for unconditional love – which is what we need the most! Most of us search for a lifetime to get the kind of nurturing love we got as infants. In the 35 plus years that I have been teaching my Theory of Love as Nourishment, not a single person, from the thousands I met and taught, has ever told me that they actually spoke the words, “I would like to have an unconditionally loving relationship with you.” Not to anyone, not even family members. How can you get what you want if you don’t ask for it? People aren’t mind readers. Sadly, we find rejection so painful that we are afraid to ask. This App will make it easier for you to ask for and receive unconditional love from those you love/like/care about/ and work with. When they ask you what you mean by ‘unconditional love’ you will be able to explain it to them – as well as the many benefits of simply working toward having an unconditional relationship. Once you learn to nourish yourself with love, and stop being totally dependent on others for it, your fear of rejection will subside or stop. You will learn to ask people to treat you nicely, and when they don’t, you will let them know – nicely – that it is not acceptable. Ultimately you will learn to transform other people’s negative behaviors toward you into more loving behaviors, or gently step back from the relationship until they realize your value and seek you out.